"Pharo is not Smalltalk. Pharo is Smalltalk-inspired."
My son is not me. He is inspired by me.
Why would I want him to be "just like me"? My ambition is that he will be better than me.
He has grown and left home. Does that mean he has divorced me?
He doesn't want to be a programmer. Is that a bad thing?
I feel like a family friend, watching a child grow into an adult. There is a sense of pride - vicarious - in watching Pharo's growth. The is a sense of anticipation of what Pharo's future will be.
Am I concerned that this child will repudiate beliefs and behaviours I hold dear? Not in the least! It comes from good stock and it's being raised by a good and caring family.
Go, Pharo! Fly! Show us what you can be.
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Can we stop discussing "When did you stop beating your wife?" and resume discussing what Pharo should be (or become)?