Hi Ben,
Thanks for letting us know.
I am sorry you feel this way, but I believe your presentation of the situation is both unfair and unfortunate. You are obviously referring to issues that are of personal nature, and as outsiders we are left with only an ugly feeling without being able to either understand or fix anything.
I was actually having fun until your email, and as far as I can tell, others were having fun as well. I am not sure what the intention of your email was, but at least for me, your mail did manage to spoil the fun for a second.
I appreciate the work you put in Pharo, I respect your decision, but I do not sympathize with your behavior.
Good luck,
Doru